Hardly matters what they say or how they say it, “Barney-Franking” is an exremely unclean and unsafe way to have sex, not to mention disgusting.
Disgusting is an opinion.
Unsafe and unhealthy is a fact.
I have a personal opinion that I’ve not seen discussed elsewhere.
Prior to the development of modern medicine, the San Fran bathhouse gay lifestyle could never have existed for long. Disease would have quickly wiped out the participants. Only antibiotics and other modern medical treatments made it possible. For a while.
And then AIDS came along...