you are looking at it wrong.
what happens when the father finds out his wife or girlfriend had the abortion? he has no legals say.
For the sake of argument, his wife decided his child should die. Or worse.
In cases where the sperm donor was opposed to and tried to talk the sperm recipient out of the abortion, my comments don’t really apply.
Many on this forum have stated that a woman who doesn’t want to have a baby should keep her legs together. And I agree.
I’d like to extend that concept to the man. A man who doesn’t want his child aborted should keep his pants zipped until he’s in a relationship where abortion is not a possibility.
The woman who aborts her child is acting maliciously. The man who carelessly impregnated her without thought for the possible consequences is behaving recklessly.
One is murder, the other reckless manslaughter.