Congrats on your staying true to your values.
I hope you mean that fun things to do besides intercourse are wholesome activities. Because the PP crowd sometimes talks about “outercourse” alternatives, which is mainly mutual masturbation from what I infer. They talk about how to satisfy a partner aside from intercourse. To me that sounds like just tempting each other more towards actual intercourse, if you are going to do “outercourse”.
Actually, I was talking about snuggling. Even spooning. Not everything that is fun leads to orgasm. I agree with you fully.