[Lorianne]

And the mother is required to get a job (or train for a job) and send the kids to daycare while she works to support them.

Woe that parents actually have to support and care for the children they beget. How mean of us.

[An American In Dairyland]

And the mother is required to get a job (or train for a job)

You must live in a different country than I do. I live in the US. I've never heard of or read of any mother told to go to work by a family court judge. Not since 1978 anyway.