Yes, there is a double standard, and those who have a problem with it should take it up with God. This does not mean women should be economically crippled. It does mean that the norm is a two parent family — one man and one woman — in which the man is the breadwinner using the God-given nature of his sex, and the woman is the nurturing caregiver and homemaker. Conservatives used to know this.
I was always surprised when a classmate in college who was very “progressive” thought it was an abomination for my mother to choose to stay at home and raise three children.
I feel the say was about this - they want women to have complete and unfettered access to the workplace (rightfully so) but then tear down women who avail themselves of it while having a family.