Overall agree, but ... “There were no really super bad judgments” ... there was one: The decision to disband the Army by Paul Bremer in May 2003 was in retrospect a fatal blunder.
The phrase, keep your friends close and your enemies closer, comes to mind. The disbanded army was unemployed and looking for a way to restore pride. Had we instead kept and reformulated it, we would have been 2-3 years sooner with Iraqi security forces, and the core of the insurgency would not have the expertise they had. Many of those former insurgent Sunni baathists are now back on ‘our’ side, fighting Al Qaeda. Had they been with us the whole time, we’d have cut years off the fighting.
Long term, yes, the key strategic victory is being won, and the US was flexible enough in strategy to get there.
What we have now with them is not perfect by far, but I suspect that relationships man to man at every level are stronger for having been tested and proven. That's a foundation for building.
A bought army is no foundation for anything but trouble.