Many people think the modern phenomenon of delaying adulthood until age 25 is normal. HERE's THE MINDSET: a 17 yo isn't an adult and is not ready to be married. And, although most people should marry some day, almost everyone needs to finish college before marrying. The parents shouldn't let teens make such a life-altering decision. In a way, having to rear the baby would be a punishment. Although the teen mom wants to do it with all her heart right now, it really is selfish and short-sighted and doesn't keep the baby's best interest in mind. The youngsters know nothing about rearing a child in the real world, and it would be reckless to let them try. The baby is a blessing, and of course not to be done away with, but the time is just not right for the unmarried children to be parents. MINDSET OFF
I am referring to people who would describe themselves as moderate or conservative. They think the Hollywood types are grown-ups who are free to mess up their lives, but the youngsters shouldn't have to grow up so fast because of one mistake. In this aspect, they agree with Obama; they just disagree that the solution should be abortion.
I am surprised readers on FR are so shocked that these people exist and hostile to me for saying that they do. Voters who think they are entitled to an opinion about this are not simply divided into "abort" and "get married" camps.
I apologize for my earlier post. I did say I hoped that wasnt your opinion. Some on this thread have said it would make them happy if she would give the baby up for adoption. I find this outrageous and you got caught in my crosshairs.