So, your not upset that she had teenage sex but you are upset that she got pregnant. Their is nothing immoral about getting pregnant or not being on birth control. It was immoral for her to have premarital sex, however, she is acting responsibly, keeping the kid and getting married. So, we should be encouraging her rather than attacking her. Frankly, I don’t see how you can be mad at her or her mother over the birth control issue since birth control is simply not a moral issue.
“birth control is simply not a moral issue.”
Tell that to the Pope.
I’m not angry at the girl. Teenagers do what they do.
It’s up to parents to take responsibility for making sure their children don’t screw up their lives. Making sure that teenage boys have condoms and teenage girls have birth control is a no-brainer.
I favor teaching abstinence—but to not leave one’s children prepared in case of a moment of weakness is frankly poor parenting, imho.