No brother of mine would do without, as long as I am alive. And I have VERY modest means.
I have seen this sort of thing before. A family member makes good but forgets the rest of his brothers and sisters. They are stuck in poverty while the successful one lives in a mansion. It happened to me when my sister married well—lost her marriage, mansions (they had two) Pool, successful businesses (chain of stores) and Sport’s car all due to cocaine. I wish I had 10% of what she spent on powder.
Maybe this is what happened to Obama.