Oh, sorry about your first born.
it was long ago now, 1979, blessed with two healthy babies born in 1980 and 1983! Huge doctor error with the first...still waiting to know he is dead, there were 3 involved, 2 down, one left (and he continued to practice and does to this day, and he had a previous identical incident like mine, but that baby lived- severely brain damaged, big malpractice suit, but I didn’t know all that until after mine died).. ya never forget, but okay otherwise..