Won’t matter. The ex will simply go back to court, use the judge touch-pad to dial in the increase that’ll pay for the taxes. (Nope, I’m not divorced, but I’ve seen how this stuff works... and it removes what vestige of respect there is for the law.) You want child support? Place the money into a fund that’s controlled by the judge. Funds go ONLY to the child. See how many yells you get when she can’t make payments on her BMW.
Gosh, I screwed up. In my case I took the kids and he took the BMW.
Gimme a break.
So paying the mortgage, lights and water aren't an issue for you?
Or food?
You want the money for toy allowances for the kids? Are you nuts?