My point was the time to think about supporting your children is before you decide to have them. It’s a simple, common-sense concept, really.
So then what happens when life doesn’t go the way you imagined that it would?
So, how is a man supposed to defend himself against a woman that steals his children from his home? Maybe some web site needs to be started that features serial divorcees. There are a lot of good decent men who have lost their children because the court systems back the harpies they married.