How do they get away with it?
The Catholic Church is huge, and contrary to popular paranoia and myth, the hierarchy isn’t as unified nor does it micromanage the affairs of all of its members.
The rules are more or less enforced on the honor system, particularly with the rank and file.
Her graciosness gets away with it because the MSM wont confront her with the real issues. Nancy Bellagosi is a vaccuous, streched faced, idiot that only got attention this last week or so because of the recent stunt she pulled. NO MSM OUTLET IS CALLING HER OUT ON THIS. She is the worst speaker, period.
I could go on but...
I'm no expert on who the Body of Christ enters upon reception of Holy Communion BUT just because someone receives the Holy Communion Host doesn't necesaarily mean that the Body of Christ enters the body of those who are in the state of Mortal sin...but again, I'm not privy to what our Lord, Jesus Christ does.