[Lijahsbubbe]

The hetero is still on, they are attracted to a masculine, male-looking woman

That's what I don't get. If you love women so much, why not be with a woman who is totally woman, not one that looks and tries to act like a man?

[Secret Agent Man]

Because they can ‘have a guy’ that is really in touch with them as women, and can be best friends with them at the same time, be interested in the same things, have similar problems to complain to each other about, etc.

For these gals they think a butch lesbian is the ideal guy - looks a like a man, but they can relate to them as a best gal pal at the same time.