You were the one that came back and said "I don't' believe you" when I said that yes, she did have an intact family, and that basically we did everytihng that parents should have done--partly because we were so poor, there was no money for refined products.
You are the one with the personal attack.
This is why a good discussion of the issue never happens. Personal stories are not evidence and no one is allowed to disagree with a personal story.
You are a stranger on the internet who believes strongly in ADHA. I don’t believe in AHDA or autism. We can never come to a conclusion discussing your personal story because I have no idea who you are or what your motives are. I’m glad your child never took drugs - that is my issue.
I’m sorry I upset you.