[donna]

If it doesn’t apply to you don’t be insulted.

If it does apply. Think about it.

[half-cajun]

“If it doesn’t apply to you don’t be insulted.
If it does apply. Think about it.”

You didn’t make a distinction. You made a blanket statement that ADHD is the result of absent dads and fathers. Your latest statement (don’t be insulted if it doesn’t apply to you and if it does think about it) shows your lack of logic. According to you, all ADHD kids must have absent fathers. That’s a silly statement.