So that was my point: many people now routinely indulge themselves in pretzel logic, sometimes even congratulating themselves on their ‘subtility’ and ‘sophistication’.
There’s a great episode of ‘Dead Like Me’ (’The Shallow End’) that analyzes the ‘frenemy’ concept, though the word never occurs in the episode. The problem with sharing it with your child is that the language is pretty harsh (nowhere near ‘Deadwood’). If there were a bleeped version, the meaning and context would be very good for your child to learn what will ultimately happen to those who learn to go with the pack like that, even against their own best intentions.