“Haven’t homosexuals been in the military forever?”
Being free to flaunt it is quite different. And like my husband says “if they can’t tell, I can pretend none of the dudes I have to shower with while deployed are gay”. “As soon as I know they are, I’m not getting in the same shower or sleeping quarters”.
So your husband has to lie to serve with homosexuals, but if he has to admit the truth he can’t serve? Interesting.