I agree that girls tend to control it all. But, as a woman, the urges are really the same. And those urges were the same back when I was a teen. It certainly wasn’t easy not having sex back when I was a teen or college student.
Not familiar with Joshua Harris... I’ll have to google him.
I agree. It was like females were supposed to reign in the males or something.
As a female, it’s not that easy to control our own desires let alone another’s desire.
One of the things I do recall, is how women weren’t supposed to like sex, when that is so far from the truth. I had family members, aunts, that said sex was all about the guy but fortunately, my mother didn’t see it that way.
I wasn’t interested in sex right before each of my kids were born or right after they were born. Other than those times, sex was always great. And sex isn’t just about one person or the two, sometimes it’s about the other person.Seriously, how hard is it to just satisfy the other person?
Got that right. I did my best to be a "good boy" in high school. I made it to my senior year before being seduced and losing my virginity. I felt so used!