Keywords “boyfriend” and “wasn’t interested”. Maybe the place to start would be by choosing better men, and getting the ring first.
“WE” are not responsible for your lack of integrity, lady.
None of these articles seem to give any weight to the impact on a man, there are men who want to be fathers and would be happy to marry their partner, but are turned down and suffer badly. For some..it is the first time that they realize that the women of their dreams is not the person they hoped.
Some of those men even end up in counseling and many break off the relationship when they find that their “modern” women is not really interested in a family.