I totally agree- I certainly feel no guilt for the US using the atomic bomb on Japan-
One of my daughters was in a class where the teacher decided the class would collect money to send to Japanese students to help fund a memorial in Japan- guilt trip on our kids. I told the teacher not one cent of my money would go for such a project, and I felt it was wrong and sending our children the wrong message about what happened and why we bombed Japan. The teacher and other parents acted like I was a nut about it.