[1rudeboy]

I’d just like someone to explain the logic behind why I can’t lament the loss of life.

[null and void]

You can. One can recognize that the loss of life was a necessary final consequence of earlier bad behavior, and still morn the loss.

[Rebelbase]

War is tragic and payback is hell. At face value it’s terrible anyone had to die at all. Once is starts the object is to kill or be killed and the side that is the most efficient killer keeps from dying.