The author is evidently unaware that when a man says that another man “thinks with his penis” it isn’t a compliment.
Exactly. The implication of this common phrase is that intellect trumps emotion and rational thought is superior to feelings. Ms. Drury's gynecological premise is just the opposite. The further implication that men have always repressed women is a staple of feminist "thought", so-called, as it allows them the luxury of playing the victim while actually being the aggressor. Pity her husband.