You did not get that notion from any survivors of childhood sexual abuse in the home, and you absolutely did not get it from any peer reviewed textbooks on sexual abuse used in teaching social workers and law enforcement.
You seem to be exclusively focused on making the mothers happy - to the utter abandonment of the safety of the children.
Here is a textbook I would recommend. It's a bit pricey, but cheap as college texts go. It isn't as long as the page count makes it appear, as 37 pages are references.
Whatever you do, stop trying to push the ludicrous notion that the women in sexual abuse situations are by default safe for the children. If you bother at all to research the subject - You will find that in the real world - they at the very least refused to listen to the child pleading for their help, and often lend tacit approval, or participate in the sexual abuse.
President Hillary will be fantastic for some Freepers...