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Allergic Mother Loses Attempt to Prohibit Kids' Contact With Cat
New York Law Journal ^ | 04/30/2008 | Vesselin Mitev

Posted on 04/30/2008 2:21:51 PM PDT by MrLegalReform

A woman who claimed that she is allergic to her ex-husband's cat cannot prevent their two children from visiting their father's home, a Long Island, N.Y., judge has ruled.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: allergic; cat; custody
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Allergies as a custody argument. There's a new one...
1 posted on 04/30/2008 2:21:52 PM PDT by MrLegalReform
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To: MrLegalReform

How does this woman live??? The whole world is filled with people who own cats.


2 posted on 04/30/2008 2:29:03 PM PDT by VictoryGal (Never give up, never surrender!)
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To: MrLegalReform

Easy solution. Put a clothes washer and shower stall in the back yard.


3 posted on 04/30/2008 2:36:39 PM PDT by SpaceBar
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To: MrLegalReform

CAT FIGHT!!


4 posted on 04/30/2008 2:39:25 PM PDT by PzLdr ("The Emperor is not as forgiving as I am" - Darth Vader)
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To: MrLegalReform
In contrast, Mr. Mandel testified that Ms. Mandel did not object to the children visiting him at the home until he stopped paying the mortgage on the marital residence.

Hmmm....

5 posted on 04/30/2008 2:40:55 PM PDT by steve-b (Sin lies only in hurting others unnecessarily. All other "sins" are invented nonsense. --RAH)
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To: steve-b

Too easy.

She idolizes Heather Mills.


6 posted on 04/30/2008 2:42:27 PM PDT by fanfan ("We don't start fights my friends, but we finish them, and never leave until our work is done."PMSH)
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To: SpaceBar

gonna be cold come winter.


7 posted on 04/30/2008 2:45:42 PM PDT by theDentist (Qwerty ergo typo : I type, therefore I misspelll.)
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To: Slings and Arrows

ping


8 posted on 04/30/2008 2:49:10 PM PDT by beaversmom
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To: MrLegalReform
Having a fairly serious allergy to (some) cats myself I can sympathize with the woman.Perhaps a thorough shower for the kids and clothing worn by them in father's home being left there would be the answer.If not.....the father could reasonably be ordered to get rid of the cat,IMO.
9 posted on 04/30/2008 2:53:28 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Women swooned in Mao's presence too.)
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To: MrLegalReform

I view allergists as total quacks and charlatans. Must have had at least a dozen of them tell my mother I was allergic to cats when I was a child; if I were allergic to cats, I’d be dead. My life now includes more cats and fewer allergists.


10 posted on 04/30/2008 2:53:28 PM PDT by wendy1946
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To: MrLegalReform

Take a Benadryl lady!


11 posted on 04/30/2008 2:55:46 PM PDT by Southerngl
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To: wendy1946
There's a running joke in the medical profession (I worked in the field for 20 years) that goes something like..."the patients of allergists and dermatologists never die and they never get better".

But on a serious note...cat allergies do exist.I know because I have one.In fact,after a few months of "babysitting" a cat awaiting placement I got to the point where I could barely breathe.After the cat's departure (and a thorough cleaning of my place) everything was fine.

I don't think the kids should be denied the chance to see their father but I think that,if need be,he could reasonably be ordered to get rid of the cat.

12 posted on 04/30/2008 2:59:52 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Women swooned in Mao's presence too.)
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To: Gay State Conservative

If I were the judge, I’d order the woman to buy a cat and learn to deal with it.


13 posted on 04/30/2008 3:02:28 PM PDT by wendy1946
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To: wendy1946

My allergist told me I was severely allergic to cats, and I’ve even slept in the same bed as two cats before, and no problem at all for me, at all, ever. But then again, apparently the skin tests they do have slightly different reactions (like if a cat bit me, I’d probably have a reaction from the saliva on the broken skin).


14 posted on 04/30/2008 3:03:57 PM PDT by Hyzenthlay (I aim to misbehave.)
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To: Gay State Conservative
“the father could reasonably be ordered to get rid of the cat,IMO.”

The father should “reasonably” send a beloved pet to a future that probably includes euthanasia because you're allergic to “some” cats? The mother on the other hand only developed her “allergy” after the gravy train stopped. Wow.

15 posted on 04/30/2008 3:06:17 PM PDT by Into the Vortex
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To: Into the Vortex

People die from allergic episodes.I saw it during my 20 years of working in a big hospital’s ER.Is the mother playing a game here? Possibly.But if her allergic episodes can be documented then I think getting rid of the cat is a viable option (of last resort).


16 posted on 04/30/2008 3:13:32 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Women swooned in Mao's presence too.)
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To: Gay State Conservative
And she has no close friends, other relatives, or co-workers who have cats?

I find that extremely difficult to believe.

17 posted on 04/30/2008 3:16:21 PM PDT by BlueLancer (Der Elite Møøsënspåånkængrüppen ØberKømmändø (EMØØK))
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To: BlueLancer

Does my tag make me look fat? Or just dyslexic?


18 posted on 04/30/2008 3:22:47 PM PDT by BlueLancer (Der Elite Møøsënspåånkængrüppen ØberKømmändø (EMØØK))
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To: BlueLancer
I find that extremely difficult to believe.

I don't know if my case is typical but I seem to have no problem around some cats but a serious problem around others.Either the mother is playing a game here (a distinct possibility) or she has a genuine medical problem (also distinctly possible).Allergies *do* exist.In the most serious cases,admissions to ICU's and even deaths can occur.As I said earlier,I've seen it.

Unless you have a medical degree perhaps you'd be wise to refrain from assuming the mother's a clown until you've seen the (medical) evidence.

19 posted on 04/30/2008 3:26:41 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Women swooned in Mao's presence too.)
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To: MrLegalReform

Actually, owning a cat is supposed to suppress the allergen.
Oh yeah I second the take a Benadryl argument.

From Wiki.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cat

Allergic reactions to cat dander and/or cat saliva inspire one of the most common reasons people cite for disliking cats. Some humans who are allergic to cats—typically manifested by hay fever, asthma or a skin rash—quickly acclimate themselves to a particular animal and live comfortably in the same house with it, while retaining an allergy to cats in general.[46] However, this should not be depended upon.

Many humans find the rewards of cat companionship outweigh the discomfort and problems associated with these allergens. Some cope with the problem by taking prescription allergy medicine, along with bathing their cats frequently (weekly bathing will eliminate about 90% of the cat dander present in the environment). There are also attempts to breed cats that are less likely to provoke an allergic reaction.


20 posted on 04/30/2008 3:26:47 PM PDT by Lx ((Do you like it, do you like it. Scott? I call it Mr. and Mrs. Tennerman chili.))
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