If some old geezer tells me he disapproves of my children having toys, I’m going to tell him to take a flying leap.
Is that a tenet of the “religion”?
That is just nuts.
On a serious note though, a leader that would decide what the kids could play with, has way too much control over the "flock". What is wrong with these women? They out number the men. As a collective group they could have taken these men down.