[PapaBear3625]

But what I’m talking about is the widespread cultural acceptance of the fact that creating a kid is without consequences for BOTH parents.

It is certainly without consequence to the mother. She can abort, give up for adoption, abandon at any hospital or police station, etc. She only needs to raise a kid if she chooses to. The system encourages female irresponsibility

Fathers, and society, need balancing choices, including the choice NOT to support her child.

[Lorianne]

I don’t agree.

We don’t need to punish children. That’s not the answer.

We need EQUAL responsibility from adults who co-create a child.