[ansel12]

"It sounded like a lot of them ended up in lower skills construction jobs.

The home of men that need to eat, but want to be left alone to their own inner demons.

[colorado tanker]

Indeed. Imagine being a boy raised in that atmosphere with no contact with the outside world and as you approach adulthood being told you're not good enough to get your own harem, the sole measure of status in that world. Then being exiled.

That would really screw with someone's mind. Plus, how could you attract a normal girl to want to marry you, knowing your background???