I am guessing she has a lot of anger from past experiences of being made fun of and harassed throughout her life, and is taking it out on anyone who disagrees with her lesbian lifestyle.
I wish Vanessa's same sex partner (apparently listed here): http://www.whitepages.com/search/ReversePhone?full_phone=505-833-1832 good luck. People like Vanessa are good to have on your side when they are on your side, but if they ever turn against you, watch out...
Picture of Vanessa here (Thursday Class, bottom row, 2nd from left): http://www.unm.edu/%7Eacademy/fall03rev.html
Vanessa Willock's Instructor Profile ("EEO Compliance Representative") here: http://www.unm.edu/%7Ehrinfo/pages/instructors/willock.htm
Copy of the "Determination of Probable Cause" here: http://www.claytoncramer.com/WvEP_Ltr_NMDept_Health_Probable_Cause.pdf
A copy of the commissions order in Willock v. Elane Photography is at http://www.telladf.org/UserDocs/ElaneRuling.pdf