I am curious whether you think the prom is some sort of educational necessity. A small percentage of the eligible students in my high school went to prom. I never heard that they had to show they had made up for that some how.
I do not think prom is an educational necessity. I thought homeschoolers might have a special event of their own within the homeschool group. Just curious how this topic is addressed with 16,17 year old homeschoolers.