I would say that the spouse becoming overweight and resistant to changing that, may well be the biggest cause of cheating and I also know that people hate hearing that. But from what I have seen so far, that is the case.
So you’re saying your wife being fat gives you a green light to screw around....and you’re what, Gorgeous George?
And how did she gain that weight?
Birthing your babies?
Fixing all those meals you like?
Stopping what she was doing to sit with you and watch a movie?
Not taking time for herself making sure everyone in the house was being cared for?
Eating out of depression because she realized what a huge mistake her marriage was and what a shallow jerk she’d married?
You are right...but it's something people do not like to talk about...I talk about it all the time. My best friend gained alot of weight within one year of getting married. It's infuriating. I think it's paramount to fraud. Alot of people won't like that. When I bring it up, she cries, "he's supposed to love me for me..it doesn't matter what I look like..." OH REALLY? Then why did you dress up on dates? Why did you go to the gym everyday BEFORE you got married?
Why do women think that way? It's so disrespectful to their husbands and themselves.
What usually happens is that women wind up taking on their husband's eating habits and patterns unless they are diligent. I know I did. I gained about 15 pounds the first year of my marriage but I work hard to keep off the weight that is so easy for women to put on. It's a daily battle which alot of women just don't have the fortitude to fight.
And then there's the baby weight. Women seem to thnk that they have a right to be heavy because they do the childbearing...OK...but don't complain when your husband becomes disinterested.
Women like that just don't care about men's needs is the bottom line.