Why is it shallow for a man to expect that his wife care about his happiness? The fat is a symptom. There are other symptoms of the same kind of selfishness. Trust me. Most of the women I know that are huge, have many other traits that are symptomatic of basic selfishness. So we perhaps have battle b/w shallow men and selfish women. At least its easy to make a shallow man happy... just lose some friggin weight.
But that’s just it hunny...
She can lose weight, but you’ll still be shallow.