I can’t believe the people in this thread who are essentially justifying cheating. Disgusting.
That is probably why Bill Clinton remained in office.
“I can’t believe the people in this thread who are essentially justifying cheating. Disgusting.”
No one is justifying cheating. What’s being noted is a woman’s ability to rectify a situation before it ever happens.
How many women are willing to try out new things at home? Willing to go to a sex counselor? If a man tries these avenues to no avail, he’s got several choices:
1) Deal with it
2) Divorce her and wreck his family
3) Cheat.
You can bet #1 isn’t a happy option. #2 is terrible. And #3 suddenly becomes more intriguing—the siren’s songs from the rocks.
I personally couldn’t ever comend cheating. I’m pretty harsh about it, though when I do so it’s generally within the confines of unmarried relationships (seeing as that’s how I sit now). There’s no excuse to cheat in such a relationship—just leave if you’re not happy. No sense being dishonest to yourself and the other.
Marriage infinitely complicates matters. I’ve just always assumed that since I’m an affectionate guy with more of a romantic streak than most that I’ll be fine when that day comes. I can imagine a man let down too many times might begin to have issues, however....
Same as a woman.