“I just know what it’s like to have a horrible sex life and I know what it’s like to have a wonderful sex life.”
See? You saw a problem, tried to fix it, then pull up your big girl tube socks and moved on.
“The difference was the men and how I felt about them and how they treated me in general.”
Of course it’s going to be different with each person. You are changing too. I bet you know more about yourself w each partner.
It’s a tough research project but you do have to study ‘till it hurts sometimes.
I do know what I want and what I refuse to put up with ever again. So, I offer advice (which is get the heck out if you are miserable and there aren't kids). And yes, girls like sex too....