Has it every dawned on some men as to why their wives don’t want to have sex with them....
As it...
What’s the point??
“Has it every dawned on some men as to why their wives don’t want to have sex with them....”
There is a flip side to that coin....
Why would a man want to keep supporting an ungrateful person who doesn’t want to have sex with them?
After all, the woman had no problem having sex when they wanted to get someplace.
Now that they got there they are going to stop?
That’s whorish BS.
There's a lot of that lacking on this thread. Several folks have posted things like marriage counselling, being romantic, yadda yadda, but I strongly suspect that many cheaters (men AND women) stray first, then attempt to put their marriage back together. All of the marriages I've watched fall apart over the last few years, with only one exception, followed that course. Cheat, get caught, then try to deal with it.
Guess what, everyone: The problems are easier to fix before you bring sex into the equation. Not always possible to fix, but easier.
I will allow that, in most cases, a certain amount of blame can fall upon the spouse who DIDN'T cheat--not blame for the actual cheating, but blame for allowing the relationship to reach a point where adultery is looked at as any kind of an outlet.
The blame for the actual adultery, for the physical wrongdoing? That blame belongs squarely upon the shoulders of the person who removed their clothes. Absolutely. If the marriage is that bad, separate. Divorce.
I've never once heard a plausible excuse for adultery.