It's our job, the laity's job, in the areas of our competence --- politics, law, medicine, biological research, foreign and military policy --- to figure out how to do what we do in a way that does not violate fundamental moral norms.
It's all too common for clerics (think USCCB) to intrude into the laity's areas of competence. That we can rightly, and even hotly, object to.
But on the other hand, it's all too common for laypeople to say, "Get the Church out of the bedroom. The boardroom. The war room." (I don't think they even want religious leaders to go to the bathroom.)
In effect, they're advocating the Separation of God and Real Life. Like Teddy Kennedy's religious faith, which is reportedly so personal and private he doesn't even impose it on himself.