It’s not easy for young people to find a good husband or wife these days. The culture is against it, especially in the coastal states.
The counterculture warriors and intellectual sophisticates have brought it on themselves, but a lot of good people are caught up in the mess, too.
There are good folks out there, but they are becoming harder to find (and, in some cases, they are not as apparent as the folks you want to avoid).
The college scene is pretty bad. I would say, probably half the students here (and I'm at one of those East Coast schools) are hooking up regularly. I'm 22, so I am thinking about jumping in at some point, but I would rather find a wonderful girl who shares my beliefs, similar (or complementary) goals, is in my age range, and is kinda cute. Bonus points if she can shoot a gun capably.