But, ominously, it seems nobody can contact the woman in Connecticut, if she exists.
Yes, that fact is ominous. And despite the suspect’s supposed grief, she remains uncooperative in identifying herself. This smells bad. A lady with a myspace account and two school aged children should not be hard to trace. That her grandparents have lost contact with her, plus this new information, should light a fire somewhere and get this person’s whereabouts determined quickly.