“If women were MORE choosy (about whom they marry, choose to have kids with, etc), men would have to have better character.”
No we wouldn’t.
We’d marry more women from other countries.
Besides it’d never happen, women are too competative and willing to sell each other out.
You just identified the father problem in the urban community. Men don't get married to their baby mommas because they don't have to. If the women in the ghetto refused to have sex without a ring, there would be a lot of rings being bought.