[Marie]

I agree in principle, but I'll let you in on a bit of male psychology. A man has to be attracted to his wife at least a little bit. Doesn't have to be much, only a little.

I have a little secret for you... it's the same for us girls. It just seems to me that guys are pickier in that department than the females. They pass up the "OK" woman for the "hottie" and then wonder why they get burned... over and over again. From what I've seen, the more beautiful the girl, the worse the wife.

Yes, you have to find a mate that you find at least a *little* attractive. But remember, in time she'll change (for the worse) and so will you. (Hubby wasn't bald when I met him! lol!)

[JamesP81]

Yes, you have to find a mate that you find at least a *little* attractive. But remember, in time she'll change (for the worse) and so will you. (Hubby wasn't bald when I met him! lol!)

Yeah, well, I'm 26 and I'm already losing my hair and I wear 36 in waste jeans. The somewhat attractive ship has already sailed for me. Come to think of it, I'm not sure it ever pulled into port to begin with.

[rbc776]

It just seems to me that guys are pickier in that department than the females.

Trust me, from personal experience I can tell you, most single women are every bit as picky nowadays about men's looks as the other way around.

It's tough out there if you are a single man and don't have a full head of hair and above-average looks.