[najida]

?????

There is a difference between being strong and caring and a jerk.

Most women can spot that.

[TalonDJ]

Oh certainly they can. I was pointing out that many of the guys that WOULD have turned into something closer to what is in those books and not jerks were the ones nice enough (and gullible enough) to buy the propaganda and become even less assertive. So most of that type are jerks instead of what you read about. Does that make sense? I am agreeing with you.

[Diplomat]

There is a difference between being strong and caring and a jerk. Most women can spot that.

Says the twice divorced woman. The majority of 25 year old women cannot tell the difference. That is why most chase the bad boys and then many end up becoming these 40 year old never been married women like the woman in this article.