Certainly prayers for your Mom and Dad both...
I had hospice for my dear husband last year, and they were wonderful. I know you feel numb right now, but I think that’s just because of the shock. After that wears off, and sadly it will, I encourage you to just spend as much time with your mom and dad as you can. Especially with your father, if he has a hard time showing feelings, he could be just destroyed and have no way to show it. Your presence will sure be a comfort, and may allow him to share his grief with yours.
And it isn’t just men...I had a hard time expressing my feelings until the funeral...I was too busy taking care of Rob in his final illness. Even with hospice, there was a lot to do...
Thanks, Judith. I tried to relate my experience from last year...and couldn’t quite find the words. You found them.
The best you can do for all three of you now is just to be there, Dad. God will give you comfort and the knowledge of what to do. Listen in the stillness of your heart to know.
We’re all praying for you and your family.
My husband passed away in July. I only cried when no one was around, before he died and since.