I'm very sorry to hear that. Some of the most wonderful things that I've bought on eBay came from smaller sellers.
I've looked at every alternative site to Ebay. No Haviland Limoges, no rare Railroad China. I'm not sure where I will sell anymore.
I am going to participate in the Boycott of Ebay that starts February 18. I won't buy or list anything that week. I'm hoping the boycott will work and they will rescind at least part of the new rules.