I have to disagree with your second assertion. The majority of men today, no matter what their age, expect their wives to work. There’s not even a question about it.
“Theres not even a question about it.”
But there should be.
But IMO, most would argue that it is far better for a mother to stay at home with kids as they develop. But this is not possible for very many people in this land, when it was once the norm. No arguing that fact.