So...are you sure you want to be calling me foolish?
As far as splitting hairs...I won't split hairs: You blame the victim. She died horribly at the hand of a man who had already tried to let her die from sepsis, and you blame her. Saying you aren't is not splitting hairs, it'slying through your teeth.
Let's make that a little more clear. "It's lying through your teeth". : )