There are no safe zones. You have to teach your children to be aware of what is allowed & you have to make them understand they can talk to you about anything.
If you are a repeat offender I think jail is the best place for you for everyone's sake. But for the boy who made a mistake I just can't see ruining his life over a lying girl. Nor do I think peeing in a bush ought to get you on a list.
Pandora, your husband must STOP IMMEDIATELY giving rides home to teenage girls. You do not want the bus to drop on his head for a false accusation or misunderstanding. PLEASE — do NOT let him do that ever again, and I am NOT kidding. He is playing with fire, and you will lose everything. Promise me he will never do that again.
If you only knew what could happen....