Your buildings are held in trust for the Bishop and your pastor is apointed by the Bishop. Some local Conferences may put on the appearance of a more gentle Ecclesiastical authority.
Do not be misled. When the chips are down the local congregation has no authority, not even over its own budget.
I suggest you read the Book of Discipline on these issues.
To say that the Methodist hierarchy resembles even remotely the centralized, authoritarian bureaucracy of the Roman Catholic Church (which I also know very well from my involvement with our daughter’s Catholic middle school) is to say that Churchill resembled Stalin because they were both men.