[TalonDJ]

Its really she doesn’t get that ‘good sex’ is something that you do, not something that happens.

Bingo! Something I read somewhere (written by a woman aimed at women) was that if you are expecting someone to hand you the 'big O' on a silver platter then your attitude is going to eh, get in the way. Probably said too much, but it is clear that her attitude is the problem here.

[najida]

You and I read the same book. You can’t be lazy about it and you can’t expect someone else to be responsible for ringing the bell so to speak. It’s not their job, it’s yours.