[najida]

Erm,
Again, it’s a two way street....A man can say ‘she’s a fat pig’ and wifey can say ‘he’s a two second rocket with a 3 inch fuse’. I actually know of a case like this...where both partners had physical, erm, issues.

You have to both care about each other enough to fix what’s wrong. And yes, sex should be special, but it also should be approached with a ‘I won’t settle for blah’ attitude, which sometimes puts it into the more pragmatic ‘find what crisps your bacon’ category.

As for anticipation= mindblowing sex....erm, not always for a woman.

[dan1123]

Again, it’s a two way street....A man can say ‘she’s a fat pig’ and wifey can say ‘he’s a two second rocket with a 3 inch fuse’. I actually know of a case like this...where both partners had physical, erm, issues.

I have a feeling that her husband is in about as bad of shape physically as she is if not worse. I didn't mean to criticize her exclusively.

As for anticipation= mindblowing sex....erm, not always for a woman.

It might help, but of course it would have to be anticipation of something good.