To: Bear_Slayer; Mr. Jeeves; Syncro; Mr. Silverback; MountainFlower; snugs; eeevil conservative
The whole “does this outfit make me look fat” may be entirely based on an honest dialogue but all too often it is based in a valid female fear that the woman’s primary attractiveness to a man is not her mind and character—but instead the outside.
Mr. Jeeves is absolutely correct in his post #22.
57 posted on
01/20/2008 10:18:14 PM PST by
The Spirit Of Allegiance
(Public Employees: Honor Your Oaths! Defend the Constitution from Enemies--Foreign and Domestic!)
To: The Spirit Of Allegiance
We all knew that!
you're no fun...:>)
58 posted on
01/20/2008 10:20:51 PM PST by
Syncro
To: The Spirit Of Allegiance
I tried to make that point. It really is not so much how the woman looks outwardly, but it has importance.
However, if she is a whining, nagging, fish-wife inwardly, all her outward looks won't last long. It will make sex unbearable and the man will start looking elsewhere, even the gal with the fat-a$$ that smiles when he talks.
60 posted on
01/20/2008 10:22:17 PM PST by
Bear_Slayer
(When liberty is outlawed only outlaws will have liberty.)
To: The Spirit Of Allegiance
The whole does this outfit make me look fat may be entirely based on an honest dialogue but all too often it is based in a valid female fear that the womans primary attractiveness to a man is not her mind and characterbut instead the outside. Women tend to not realize that, as long as she's enjoyable company and has a reasonably high libido, she doesn't need to be a supermodel to hold our attention. Television and movies feed this insecurity.
To: The Spirit Of Allegiance
The whole does this outfit make me look fat may be entirely based on an honest dialogue but all too often it is based in a valid female fear that the womans primary attractiveness to a man is not her mind and characterbut instead the outside.I agree with you. We women are under constant pressure to be thin, young, busty and beautiful. We're made to feel worthless if we're not. All men have to do in reply to the "does this make me look fat" questions are reassure their wives that they find them beautiful. Is that so difficult?
128 posted on
01/21/2008 7:35:02 AM PST by
Nea Wood
(I'm not a bad Christian because I refuse to join you in giving other people's stuff away.)
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